It is incredibly easy to find information about how to exercise, how much you should be exercising, and why it’s important to exercise. In fact, this information seems to find us, even when we aren’t looking. You might receive this information from your doctor, your friends, the nightly news, and daily targeted advertisements on your social media! The message behind much of this information is that you need to exercise to be healthy and this might also mean changing something or many things about the way your body looks. It can feel really challenging to divert your attention from these messages and check in with yourself on how much and what type of movement your body needs. 

This Sunday, May 10th, is Mother’s Day here in the United States. Although Mother’s Day is particularly weird this year, let’s be clear that Mother’s Day can be a day of mixed emotions any year. You may be relating to the day from the role of a mother or from the role of an adult child --or both. I find that any day that carries the expectation of joy and celebration also carries with it the shadow of loss and pain. I hope that you can allow yourself to honor the multiple truths of the day that feel present to you. 

I’ve been hearing this week that it can be really challenging to spend more time at home for any number of reasons, but particularly that it is more challenging to spend more time with your own thoughts. You may be balancing the responsibilities of work and home with the added element of not being able to access some of your go-to coping strategies. The idea of self-compassion and remaining present with yourself might sound great but feel out of reach or even annoying. I hope to be able to identify a few common myths about self-compassion and normalize some of the thinking traps that can feel a bit sticky or murky. 

This week, the topic is a brief breakdown of why myself and so many other therapists so often and passionately recommend journaling and writing exercises. I apologize for missing last week’s newsletter. I was not able to pull together the content on the topic of writing in the way that I had hoped. How ironic! You might be someone who openly embraces this part of your process, and most likely started journaling long before a mental health professional suggested it. Or, maybe you’re a little ambivalent, unsure of why it’s so popular, but curious. For others, writing is really not your thing and that’s of course okay too. There are so many wonderful mediums of self expression, and writing is only one option. I choose to maintain a journaling practice for myself and recommend it so highly because it’s economically accessible, adaptable to not only different people but also different moods and schedules, and is a tool for expression that also provides physiological benefits.